Showing posts with label sexism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sexism. Show all posts

Saturday, March 1, 2014

See the human Inside

"human INSIDE is an anti-discrimination campaign which aims to raise awareness of discrimination and hopefully reduce discrimination as much as possible.

Instead of using people, inanimate objects became the subjects of the photo essays. Each essay tells a story that relates to results of discrimination or how it unfolds." 

Through these powerful images and quotes, Faheema Patel demonstrates discrimination that surrounds and affects us all. 

Racial Discrimination

In 2012, 51 percent of Americans expressed anti-black sentiments in a poll; a 3 percent increase from 2008.
"99.9% of the DNA of every person in the world is identical.” – The Human Genome Project
(Faheema Patel)

Body Image

80% of children who are 10 years old are afraid of being fat.
“Man is the only critter who feels the need to label things as flowers or weeds.” – Unknown
(Faheema Patel)

Disability Discrimination 

Just over 1 in 4 of today's 20 year-olds will become disabled before they retire. No one is immune, only resilient.  
Differently abled not disabled (Faheema Patel)


Bystander Effect

In 54% of cases, bystanders reinforced the bully by watching but not joining in. 
“Our thoughts are unseen hands shaping the people we meet. Whatever we truly think them to
 be that’s what they’ll become for us.” – Richard Cowper 
(Faheema Patel)

Violence Against Women

“6 out of every 10 women worldwide experience violence in their lifetime.” – UNIFEM
(Faheema Patel)
Most dating violence incidents are never reported.
Help change the facts. Speak up, speak out, and make a difference for victims of dating violence.

Religious Discrimination 

Nearly 50 percent of countries increased their religious discrimination between 2009 and 2010, and only 32 percent saw decreases.
If religion is not a crime then why are we treated like criminals? (Faheema Patel)

Freedom

"WE ALL DESERVE
...a life of peace
...a life of freedom" (Faheema Patel)

Teen Link believes in freedom. We provide a place for young people to talk about their struggles with people their own age. We believe that through talking it out there can be healing. 

Teen Link is an anonymous support line, open everyday 6pm-10pm. We have online chat and a phone line open to everyone ages 13-21. You can reach Teen Link at; 
(866)-833-6546 or www.866teenlink.org

To find more information on the human Inside project visit: http://www.behance.net/gallery/human-Inside/1421483
All pictures and quotes belong to Faheema Patel and the human Inside project. 

Monday, February 10, 2014

"Your shirts too low."


My boyfriend raises his eyebrows at me, “That shirt is pretty low,” he says.
It was my shimmery gold shirt,
The one filled with little red triangles and intricate designs,
one of my favorites.
My boyfriend had commented on my shirt being "too low,"
or my pants being "too tight," before.
I laughed the first time he did it,
My mom did too when I told her the story.
“He’s so sweet and protective of you, honey,” she said.
I smiled back up at her, my mom the feminist.
It felt a bit ironic.
My mom, the feminist who thinks it’s cute that my boyfriend comments on my clothing when he isn’t in approval of it
He has the right to tell me if my shirt is too low because he is just being protective.
Protective of what?
Protective of other guys looking at my chest? Because that’s what my body is right? Something to be looked at.
An object that needs to be covered up in order to be taken care of. An object that’s only purpose is too be looked at.
So why for any reason would I wear a shirt that is a little lower than usual other than to objectify myself?
Maybe…
I just like the shirt.

I know my boyfriend was just being protective,
But why aren’t I protective of him in this way?
Maybe because masculinity, means me not questioning what guys wear.
But for girls, it seems to be the opposite.
Femininity is ironic,
it is sexy but innocent.
It is vulnerable.
And it must be protected.
And society has given men the job of protecting women’s bodies.
It’s not just my boyfriend who has commented on my clothing, my guy friends have too, and I see it happen to my other girl friends as well.
But what guys don’t realize
Is that their ‘protection’ of our bodies,
Takes away our right to them.
It takes away my right to wear whatever shirt I want.
Maybe because I feel beautiful it in.
Maybe because I feel strong in it.
Or maybe, I just really like its gold shimmery pattern that is filled with little red triangles. 


I am learning to be strong in my own body. To remember that it is my body and no one else's. I have the power to do whatever I want with my body and no one else can have that power over me. I am learning to love my body and respect my body. My body is what I see the world through and through which I interact with the world. 


If you are ever feeling like you are not in control of your body or struggling with valuing it, you can call Teen Link to talk it out. Just like you can call us for any other reason. We are an anonymous phone line for teens and answered by teens. The people on the line are there to listen—no matter how big or small the issue. Teen Link’s number is 1 (866) 833 – 6546. The line is open every night from 6 – 10 P.M. If you prefer to chat, visit www.866teenlink.org. Chat is available all week. 

And always remember, you are beautiful.